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Originally Posted by granite1
i am completely terrified of exspectations. i don't ever want my T to show or say she cares,loves,or anything.it would make me feel like she has some expectation connected with it and i would run not walk away.
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Thanks Granite...
lightbulb moment for me.
THIS is what made me run. wow.
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Originally Posted by TheBunnyWithin
There is some sort of burden or expectation associated with this that I haven't explored yet. So I think this whole area is dangerous ground for T's because all of our needs are so different. I can see where a good T would proceed cautiously in this area.
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crap. crap. crap. This is exactly what happened. He told me he liked me. Then he initiated a few calls, kind of a safety check, but I didn't like him calling me. I freaked, felt claustrophobic, and bailed. classic I guess.