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brackenbeard · Jun 09, 2012, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by chm004

I am pretty sure people dont hate me because I never gave them a reason too. But people are really neutral to me. I always have to initiate to hang-out and stuff - they rarely asks me to do something. From an outsider's perspective it may look like i got a lot of friends but thats because I tend to keep myself busy with activities that involves people.

Well good thing man, i mean that you're out doing activities. I wouldn't worry to much, that's the point of it all, to hang out. I have to initiate a lot of my social interactions, and I think people expect me to get in touch with them because that's what I've always done. It would be nice to be the one getting phone calls, but it's not a big deal really.

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Originally Posted by chm004

Things i noticed about myself is my poor self-esteem. I always feel inferior to people which leads to a bit of social anxiety even though I am very outgoing. I am a good listener, but a bad converser because I just agree with everything they say even when I don't. I am always afraid of losing friends - so when I am with new people the thought of 'don't piss them off' is always at the back of head. I also cycle through friends or groups of friends - things either ended badly or just end.

Real friends don't just ditch you at the drop of a hat. Whatever you're thinking you need to be, it doesn't matter... what matters is that you're out socializing. You want to be liked more... i've found that people really like good listeners. listen well then, and do the best you can. honestly anytime you're thinking about well i'm inferior or something just remember that you're doing the best you can.

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Originally Posted by chm004

Just now one of my friends said I am a bit fake - like I just adapt to everyone around instead of being who I am.

don't believe this ****. get on with your life. move on don't dwell on that.