I think so Try not to dwell on the things you see as bad or defective. I see a lot of good there. I know we've messaged about friends... platonic relationships. Good friends are hard to come by. That is a matter of putting in the effort. And also involves a lot of luck. It just isn't that easy to find good friends. I've had maybe 7 really good friends in my life. Friends who would actually be there if I needed them. So... that isn't something that is just going to fall in your lap unless you're very very lucky.
As for romantic love... I'm sure a lot of what I said about friends applies there as well. It's just that the risks and the stakes are so much higher.