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Originally Posted by Girl_Interrupted
To be honest I've been confused ever since I can remember.
I got bullied at school when I started growing boobs and wasn't wearing a bra, but I didn't want to buy bras, it felt so un-natural. I did go and buy some though to shut the bullies up (at least about that subject, didn't stop them from bullying me about everything else)
I already look quite masculine, but I suppose not enough. All my clothes are male, except bras. Sometimes I bind my chest though with a chest binder, or sometimes I wear a sports bra so my chest isn't so obvious, especially under a hoody, it makes me look flatter without actually flattening myself.
My hair is short, but I was thinking of going shorter and going for something more modern/male.
I can't do anything about it now though because I need my hair thick/long to dress up as Matt Smith Doctor Who for a convention.
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There are probably hundreds of thousands of women in this world who dress and look very masculine. Do you think maybe this is just who you are, or do you actually think you should be a man? There's a huge difference between those two.
Bullying is a big problem with people who have gender confusion - we all hear the stories. I'm really sorry you're having to go through this
It turns out that sometimes kids are just a**holes because they don't know any better. I'm a lot more out about who I am now in my 30s than I ever could have been as a teen and early 20-something. Whether this is an expression of your identity, sexuality, or whatnot, you will become more comfortable with yourself as you grow. Don't give up and don't let those d**ks define you - that's your job.