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Originally Posted by Jan1212
I told my bf the same thing when we started dating; I used to get along with guys more than girls. but I kept getting texts and calls from the other guys also I dated before him and he didn't like it. "How would I feel if he got suspicious texts and calls from girls i don't even know?" I did not do anything with them while I got in a relationship with my boyfriend but he had reasons to be suspicious.
You had a conversation with her, but it seems it still needs to be worked out. After letting her know how you feel, she shouldn't be talking to these men especially when you found out they talk about sex-related stuff. She isn't willing to change her behavior about being honest with you; she locked her phone after you talked about it, if she won't change, are you willing to accept that she does this, would you take a step back so you won't get hurt or feel too stressed about it?
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I asked her before how she would feel if it was the other way around. Her response was she doesnt think that way that she trust me completly. When I change phones I didnt give my new number to any woman I used to talk to even ones I had never done anything with. Never wanted her to even have to have the thought that I was. She says she cant control what people text her and my response was yes you can and then her response is so you want me to get rid of my friends. I am afraid if I take a step back it will be a complete step. The last serious relationship I had we took a step back and she slept with someone during the step back then lied face to face to me about it. Then after she realized I knew her excuse was we werent together. I cant do that again. If I take a step back im done and I dont really want that. She is the first person ive really felt like I could be with forever. We work really well together with just about everything.