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Jul 12, 2012, 08:37 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Kaioken ! I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dear uncle.  These anniversaries are SO hard - especially when others just don't seem to even acknowledge them, and they hurt US so terribly. I know what you mean. And I'm sorry you're still grieving so badly. It's sad that you didn't get to say goodbye.
I think it would be beneficial to you to consult a grief therapist. I saw one when my husband died, and it really helped me alot! The therapist helped me move thru the grieving more smoothly so I didn't get "stuck" in one particular stage, which so often happens. I think you should try it. You can contact one thru Hospice -- it doesn't matter if you've used their services or not. They will be happy to talk to you! There might be a small fee, but I'm not sure. But I really think it would do you some good. 
Again, I'm so sorry. Please let us know how you're doing! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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