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Originally Posted by ktbelle373
Button30-I'm so sorry for all the pain your going through, i just broke up with my boyfriend of 4yrs and i really do understand how hard it is to be without the person you were with for so long.I feel your pain. i have no idea what your T was thinkning. i think you need to talk about your grief and your feelings about your ex, i think grieving is our minds way of healing, there is no right way to grieve. i think instead of worrying that you should be moving on by now you should give you heart some time to heal, six years is a long time to be with someone, its gonna take time, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel, try to look forward to that day. in the mean time be true to yourself and what you are really feeling, and maybe think about getting a new therapist.i wish you all the best, you are not alone, im right there with you.    |
KTBelle,
I am so sorry to hear of your break-up. Four years is a long time to be with someone and to love someone. I know exactly how you feel and it hurts like hell to try and picture a day with them not there.
Everyday I tell myself it will get better, there is someone else for you but the longer it goes on the harder it gets to stay positive.
BTW, I am alwys here if you need anyone to talk to or if you are just lonely. The thing is no one can tell you how to feel or how you are supposed to feel as everyone is different, so my T was indeed wrong but she was only trying to help.