Well, after many emails back and forth, he still was not able to own the fact that he really screwed up. I just feel like he really put me into harms' way, emotionally. He alluded more to how we choose our thoughts, that this was a "perceived" slight and that I've been clinging to reactivity. There are names I'd like to write of what I'd like to call him, but they are not forum-friendly. I am proud that I'm really drawing a line in the sand and saying that this is completely unacceptable. Months prior, I would have literally swallowed the upset with lots of food and felt wrong or bad that I was hurting so much. So I've really learned a lot, both about myself and T. What a freakin narcissist! Felt so good to say bah-bye!