O.m.g. My T apologizes up one side and down the other (at the next session) when he sends me texts intended for his gf (it's only happened twice, they just say like 'see you soon'). but at least he acknowledges how it would make me feel! in the transference, out of the transference, whatever! I mean, I don't really want to HEAR it, but at least he OFFERS some sympathy. idk, your guy reminds me of a hippie time guru with a following of free-love women - nice work if you can get it