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Originally Posted by eskielover
What's wrong with being alone????
I have been the happiest that I have ever been in my life after leaving my husband after 33 years.....that was 5 years ago.
You have to look at the relationship in a logical way.......love is a 2 way street, otherwise it's NOT REALLY LOVE....it's infatiation about you wanted the relationship to be, but the reality of it wasn't a loving relationship.
When you start to look at your life realistically along with your relationships & when you don't feel like you HAVE to be with someone, that's the time when the right person may come along.
It's important to have your life together & not depend on someone else to make your life happy before you will ever be able to have a real loving relationship.
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I agree with most of what you said. It is something that I know I should do in my life too.. learn to look at relationships in a more healthy way and come to a place where the relationship isn't "needed" but just "icing on the cake of life"
I only disagree on one thing, you can love someone without them loving you too. True it's a one way relationship but it can be more than "infatuation" even if they dont' love you back. *hugs*