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Originally Posted by WNT2bNRML
"Off", think about it for a minute............................ok long enough. If you have forgiven others, then don't you think you have been forgiven? If someone doesn't forgive you for something, then how do you perceive that person as an individual? Probably not good right? Some where someone has forgiven you and so you also have to forgive yourself.....just as you forgive others. It's the same concept. Same steps. It's one of the hardest things to do in the whole world, (except for an abstract, intellectual, rational person), but we would all die by our own hands if we didn't do it.
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good point!
and yet...'
it's as you say...'instant'...most often to forgive others.
and I really don't want to unshine you WNT...because I respect you.
the thing is...forgiveness is in my heart but i have behaved opposite to this my whole life....saying it acting it but not proving it....
I was exposed to blame really too soon for me and ever since all I seem to be expert at is finding fault in the world around me.
I say "no worries man"....but it's just a bad habit.
I forgive no-one for anything they might or might not do...
meanwhile...it's very lonely
I'm 'dubbled' up as usual blame me for blaming them