Our T's are just as human as we are. We think of them as allmighty and all knowing. One of my T had filed for bankruptcy once in her past and was having to file again 15 years later. She would rather not give finiancial advice. She and her H were on the brink of divorce 3 years ago and had to get marriage T. I was quite nervous about taking advice from her. Later come to find out she and her H had the same issues as me and my H. That didn't help matters. She was angry in her own marriage and it did creep into the way she thought of ours. I was cautious enough not to let her personality and way of handeling her relationship become the way I handled mine. She is not longer my T. Not because of this info but just the progression of time and needing to move on to bigger and better things. We are still close. She shared things w/ me that did cross that professional line but it made the T relationship so much stronger. The connection we had because I knew her story made her feel more invested in my story. All T's have some investment but this was on a personal level and it greaterly changed for the better how things were delt with.