i think you nailed the most important aspects about what kind of friends they are. But let me tell you a tale. my wife and i have a perfect love for one another, we have what others can only wish for , but we do not require freinds or outside influences to validate our love or our selves.we find that so called freinds usually have alterior motives any way. we dont need that kind of stress in our love.and we never deteriate in our emotional health because we do not have freinds.your girl freind may be the one who is right. a perfect love is a perfect circle that only needs you and her to complete.