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Oct 07, 2012, 08:10 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I have to agree with BB2023 -- it seems that your current boyfriend isn't taking his "messing around' on the net very seriously. I for one would raise cain and tell him that I'm NOT going to accept this, and if this continues, I'm outta here!
But first, I'd have a long talk, and ask him WHY he feels he has to do this. What is missing in our relationship that makes him run to his ex, and solicit web sex.? I'd ask him if there was something I was doing or NOT doing that is causing this behavior. I'd also suggest couples counseling -- IF you want to save this relationship.
If he's not going to talk to you, like Bb2023 said -- then forget the counseling, and forget the relationship because obviously he's not willing to put the work into the relationship that you are. I'd get out.
As for your new friend -- go slowly. You don't want to jump into another bad situation. Make sure he's what you THINK he is. Everyone has their faults & warts. Make sure you can live with his. You have your whole life ahead of you and you don't HAVE to find your life-long partner now!
Best of luck and I hope things go well for you. God bless and PLEASE let us know what happens, ok? Hugs, Lee 
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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