Hi TC and Everyone,
TC, I forget whether or not you said you've done DBT. I wasn't aware you had another therapist besides the one you've been seeing. I think that individual DBT could help in this situation, as it could interrupt the "rollercoaster pattern" that you so clearly outlined in an earlier post.
And I think in her last response, MU was saying that it's her work to figure out why she gets pulled into the pattern of reading your original post, and then just getting caught up in responding in a way that might not be the healthiest for her. Not that you were targeting her specifically or anything!
Honestly, when I read your OP, I thought for sure you were actually leaving t, and did feel very bad for you. When I found out you had texted her, gone back and things seemed fine again I realized it was the same thing as so many times before. It is exhausting for you and everyone.