Hi, I've been getting along pretty well with this woman online but I don't know if I have the courage to meet her in real life. I have social phobia and I've never been totally comfortable with anyone outside my immediate family, except maybe three or four people in my entire life.

I feel like I should tell this lady that she shouldn't waste too much time on me because we probably won't meet. But then I also want to meet her.

Thoughts?