Hi seeker,

I agree with the other posts in most things and also with TanyaGrave that there is "emotional" cheating as well as physical.

Think of this, if you will, What if you were married and your husband had a woman "friend" like you are to this man would you feel comfortable about it all-- ........ And the woman friend made herself available to emotionally support your husband, even at times, when in private together---- would you feel like your territory was being trespassed upon? Would you feel good things about that woman "friend"? Is the woman "friend" helping the man's marriage or hindering it?

just some things to think about......

Your mind is already telling you if it's right or wrong....... perhaps you are hoping someone will support or discount your mind?

Thinking of you, seeker---

hope I haven't offended you.....it was surely not my intention.

mandy