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Originally Posted by bighands
Believe me, I know.he needs to be my son and not my buddy. Im not about to tell him it`s ok to make my cellar his love shack but I also know that if I blow up his world, he`ll never trust us and tell us anything and we could lose the things we do have under control. Now, he tells us a lot. He does.not drink or do drugs. He gets good grades and hangs with a.like crowd but, this first love thing needs to be handled delicately.In the meantime, he is definitely on lock down.
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Just remember, you aren't talking about blowing up an engagement or long-term relationship. You are talking about stopping a 15 year old from humping his girlfriend and possibly landing you with a grandchild. This isn't true love; this is teenage lust. It is doubtful this "relationship" would last that long in the first place; that's just the nature of teenage relationships for the most part. This is NOT going to completely break his trust in you. After all, it is HE who broke the trust here, not you. Don't forget that. Don't take on the blame that should truly be on HIS shoulders.