(((chopin))) I know it's hard for you right now. You have big big stuff going on, your life is upside down, your sleep isn't balanced, your schedule is off with H working nights...soon to end woot....med adjustments, pain management, work restructuring, dealing with office politics....etc etc etc....

I am logically minded, so I will basically shut it, I realize feelings aren't logical. One thing to think about though....
Sometimes I have to rephrase things like "she triggered me" to "I was triggered by something she said". Semantics? probably....but just remember the triggering wasn't an aggressive act by her.

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