wow, you knocked me down with this one.
Remembering all the times in the past when I have heard it from others (in widely various walks of life, too).

But I don't know how to do that, Pachy.
In (very rare) open moments T2 has voiced some chagrin over the number of clients (hers are often court-ordered ones, mind) who go out her door at the end of an hour and never give ONE THOUGHT to what had been talked about, till they pull into her parking lot the next week.
I have never been like that; I reasearch, I read, I bring in articles and books & lists of questions, I journal, I post here, I ponder things; it's just the way I "do" therapy. They say you can't do therapy wrong, but maybe all this is wrong?

I would love to hear about how others just let healing happen as it will.
Seriously.