I have had only one boyfriend ever!!!! Didn't work, done! You wouldn't guess this was being written by a 52 year old woman. I keep reading and hearing that every person I have ever met or come into contact with has had several relationships.

I was diagnosed with depression and ADD at 50. I don't look unusual or below average looking and I am above average intelligent. I am not overweight, or deformed, in fact, I have a really good figure. I have a good job, independent, support myself, don't have any unsavory past and have a wonderful social life.

I smile all the time, never use bad words or talk about people behind their backs. I am kind of like the cookie baking girl next door.

But men aren't attracted to me, I mean they are really sweet and kind and respectful and "he is just not into you" Even after all these years I still have my feelings hurt. I need to learn how to not take it personal...but how?