This also annoys me about most ts is they dish out all this advice and do not think of the consequences. Healed, these are huge decisions you are trying to make and you should not be rushed or pushed into anything. A little more support from t would not go astray.
Especially decisions about your marriage, these are life changing and should be well thought out. Maybe you could ask t for a little more support right now and a little help weighing up all the consequences