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Old Feb 08, 2013, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by she imp View Post
Have you been able to say no in a non confrontational manner yet?

I know getting overly upset is not always the answer, but you do have to consider your own feelings and be strong.

I have a smilar issue sometimes, but I don't feel like it's because I'm weak or needy. I'm just kind of "nice" and have been in a lot of other's shoes, so I'm understanding too.

If you've already been clear with a no. I hope it sinks in.

Please keep your own feelings in mind.

hi she imp

yes i always say no gently at first but most folks know they can talk me round coz of my guilt factors. so there usually comes a point where i have to be harsh to be listened to, which makes me feel like an even worse person. thanx for your reply tho.
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