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Originally Posted by RomanSunburn
Unfortunately, if/when you have children, she won't be able to miss days of "work." This is part of the reason I want to get as mentally (and physically) healthy as I can before I have children. But something kind of struck me... Would she be interested in having an in-home daycare business? She'd get to stay home and take care of children, without having any of her own yet, but also be contributing to your financial situation.
I can't remember if you said anything about her being in therapy? It might be helpful to her; it sounds like she is possibly still depressed and still dealing with the aftermath of the abuse from her ex. Only now, instead of pot, she's using video games to cope. It could also be the reason why she's struggling to find any passion in her life or goals she wants to achieve.
I hope you two can get through this.  |
Shes not in therapy. I don't know if she ever went. She told me she was depressed a while and got some meds and felt better after she left her ex. She doesnt like to talk about it. She hates doctors as well.
She doesnt seem depressed. I don't think she is withdrawing. When she plays games it is online games and she talks to her friends all day. I think it is just laziness. She like playing games and surfing the web, so that is what she does all day. Maybe it is an addiction, I dunno.