Rainbow - I really want to reply to your post, but everything I've typed so far comes across as being very critical of your H. I'm bothered by the fact that he's trying to make decisions for you about your own mental health. It bothers me that you say your H "let you be in T" as if you need his permission to do something that is beneficial to your health.

I guess, I'm of the opinion that if going to T is something you feel like you need to do, then you shouldn't let anyone stop you or discourage you. If it's a money issue, then talk to T about ways to work around that.

I hope you can resolve this to your satisfaction, and that you can keep going to T and getting the help you need.