as i try to put the pieces together on what did or didnt happen with my dad i was given some new information. my mom said, "your dad would've never done anything like that he didnt even want change your diapers or give you a bath when you were little"....this struck me as weird. and it wasnt said in a way that like "he's the man and thats a womans job" kind of thing. Anybody else find that strange? I dont have kids but Ive never heard a husband/dad say that.