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Originally Posted by struggling2
as i try to put the pieces together on what did or didnt happen with my dad i was given some new information. my mom said, "your dad would've never done anything like that he didnt even want change your diapers or give you a bath when you were little"....this struck me as weird. and it wasnt said in a way that like "he's the man and thats a womans job" kind of thing. Anybody else find that strange? I dont have kids but Ive never heard a husband/dad say that.
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Intuitively it seems that you know something doesn't seem right. I question why your Mom accepted and didin't question, that your Dad didn't want to "change your diapers or give you a bath". My ex husband was like that when my daughter's were very young and then I found out. Anyway my intuition told me something wasn't right. I'm not saying this is about your situation , I'm saying trust your self, intuition. It's a natural gut feeling that we all have, don't you think?
warm thoughts.