Adam, That is so well put and thought out. It is very generous of you to allow her to stay and get things straightened out for herself for the next 2 months. That is the right things to do. No one ever said doing what was right was easy.

You have put alot of thought into what you needed from your relationship. It is a give and take and sounds like you were giving alot and she was taking alot, not giving back to you even if it is not financially giving. Time and emotional connections mean alot.

It sounds like you have a good plan.