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Originally Posted by bubsmiley
That pushing me out is better than me walking out. I admit I don’t understand that logic
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What she means is as follows: if your husband pushes you out, being the agent rather than the recipient of the action of abandonment, he will feel better than he would feel if you initiate his abandonment. He wants to be the agent rather than the passive recipient.
Ultimately, it does not matter very much. Deciphering his logic, motivation, hidden impulses, agendas, etc. is a waste of your time.