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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
What she means is as follows: if your husband pushes you out, being the agent rather than the recipient of the action of abandonment, he will feel better than he would feel if you initiate his abandonment. He wants to be the agent rather than the passive recipient.
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Is he aware that he's doing this? I would think it only feels better if you knew you were actively pushing, rather than being acted upon. In the end, you're right, the result is the same, so it probably doesn't matter.