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Originally Posted by monarch_butterfly
So i hadd an extra session with my T Friday as my day was tough. What was figured out was that my little Anna, was getting so tired of getting barraged by my BF asking questions (as was I) that between the 2 of us we sub conciously made up the other 2 alters! In order to protect all of us....those 2 being somatic/conversion disorderish.
All week I knew something was wrong. I couldn't feel them like I've been able to feel Anna almost my whole life. There is a 2nd one I can feel. Don't know her name but I remember her being in my head since first grade. She came closer this week. I think shr did this to help me and Anna.
My T understands and gave my BF a talking too. He can still intrract with my littles but he has to do normal kid stuff with them...not try to fix us.
So we all feel better now.
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sometimes the creation of what we call false alters here where I live and work happens, which is why this state and the American Psychiatric Association has strict rules about how to work with people with mental disorders, which came about years ago when many mental health treatment providers were accused of doing the same thing your boyfriend did.
your therapist sounds like she knows what shes doing and Im glad this situation with your boyfriend is now resolved in a way that you and your alters will now be be safe from this kind of emotional abuse.