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Originally Posted by H731
Hi all
just wanted some thoughts from others. Got married the end of last year and i think he is cheating. found messaged (numerous) to other women and they are sexually explicit.
He is the love of my life and i don't know what to do
he left his partner to be with me and he said that he finally went because she kept accusing him of cheating so he did
i just dont know what to do

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Pretend for a moment that he WAS cheating. What would you do? Some women would turn a blind eye, and others would want the cheating to stop. If he is cheating, then there is a very good chance that he will not stop, or if he does, that he will start again soon. Does that change your feelings? If you turn a blind eye, will you insist on protecting yourself from disease? Would he accept that? Could you live in a marriage in which you share your husband with countless other unknown women?