Well another good thing today. According to the calculations of child support, based on my ex not working, I could owe up to $800 a month for child support. that's WITH me having them most of the time! O.o I didn't think that was very fair. But of course I can impute income for her and it would be based on her ability to make a lot more than she does and it would lower the amount. So I was prepared to use that. Offered $400 a month settled out of court. She just plain agreed, without any questions. O.O can't say I'm unhappy about that!