I have the same feeling. My H only gets to have sex w/ me a time or two a month. It ain't the great kinda sex either. It's 30 sec quickie sex. That will have to do for him. I simply don't like being touched.

I was raped more for more then a short time when I was a young teenager. I'm sure that has alot to do w/ things. I have a T who specializes in trauma's. She understands. After 10 months I can finially bring up sex in little bits. I hope my H and I can work together on this. have you considered finding a different T. Maybe even keep the one you have for the issues at hand, but find another for this particular issue.