I am so sorry, Moose. I guess we harden with time. I just removed my old t's phone number from my phone, but I still get angry when I go to the practice with my son, and still see her name on the door because she has paid the rent for a month or so, so she can get her stuff moved.
I am sure you are sad, tears or no tears. We put our lives out there and the reality is, if someone is doing their job effectively, we heal but we hurt.
I am getting ready to post about a transference issue I am having, so I definitely get it!
I hope the newbie is wonderful!
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