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Old Mar 31, 2013, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by 1stepatatime View Post
So my ex and I broke up over four and a half months ago....we care for one another very much and are trying to maintain a friendship...it hasn't been easy but because we care for each other we are trying to make it work. Here is my question... my ex has a new girlfriend and even though it is painful, I sometimes ask her intimate questions about her new relationship. Why does a person do this, especially when the answer is going to hurt??
There may be a wide variety of reasons.

What does she do when you ask?

What is your relationship with her? Those questions are indeed very intimate, so to answer them, she must be in some sort of a close enough relationship with you, right? We do not ask such questions of random people.

Last edited by hamster-bamster; Mar 31, 2013 at 11:50 PM.