I've not taken risperdal, but yea sounds like need to taper more slowly, sorry you're going through it too lady
My older son has a breast growth from risperdal - it's known for causing that in young boys - he was on it around age 12-13... Poor guy 17 and he's so skinny you can see it through his shirt

I guess I need to sue them to pay for his surgery. It also caused lactation in some women yikes! Not to scare you, but people should know about these risks, I think.
Take care, stay calm and turn up the tunes