We have been trying to have a family reunion since we have had one in the last 14 years. I have 5 siblings, and none of us talk much. My kids don't even know their cousins. I have a couple siblings that play the victim role really well and everyone tip toes around them. We have a reunion planned for July, but one sibling was getting upset because she has to come the farthest so the family is against her and blah blah blah, so I finally just brought it up and kind of called her out a little. I was super careful what I said, but I didn't give in to her demands and agree to do what she wanted. So now I am the biggest b***h in the world and she will never speak to me again. And the thing is, she really probably won't. And I don't even think I care. I'm sick of all of it. My parents hate me anyway, and I've "ruined the family" already, so oh well. That's three of the 5 siblings that seriously despise me now too. But it's all for reasons that I am okay with. I reported one of my brothers to CPS for abusing his kids. I've not taken their crap and stood up for what is right and not stood by and let them abuse each other and me, and for that I am an outcast.