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Originally Posted by granite1
hey stop thanks.i have kind of been seeing that i am the one who is being mean and has the attitude about the mother. i am overboard. i need to just get over it . you know after reading about how i was early in school it makes me look at things differntly.if my son behaved the way i did ,i would be upset also. i need to understand that it wasnt all her. i need to see my part in it and seeing her this time has kind of helped me see this.
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Nope.
The burden of educating and caring for children falls upon the parent. Your mother did not take care of you like she should have. She hurt you in terrible ways. You were dealing with it the best you could. Kids are innocent and learn behavior from what their parents teach them. Your mom was abusive, you learned to act out.