...and I am making great progress, an I'm gonna write a best selling book about it, and I couldn't be happier!!

Is that the rest of that post? Otherwise I would want to see a warning like for extreme sports or something. Not that I have any authority to make that call. But here is someone who was not completely honest with their t or ts, and now feels justified in calling foul? When one of the basic ethical tenets is that it is an exclusive relationship? I know that its hard to be completely honest with t. I also withhold. But there is omitting to tell past feelings which may be nebulous anyway, and then there is omitting to tell something you did last week or plan to do next week (like get married - boy do they get mad if you don't tell them you're getting married!).