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Originally Posted by Luctor
Yesterday I sent my ex an email asking how she is. She hasn't responded, but has been active on facebook. She's ignoring me. Which she knows causes me a lot of pain.
I don't understand why she'd enjoy hurting me like this. It's causing me such turmoil. I miss her so much. I just want to hear from her.
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Well...she
is your ex. I doubt she is ignoring you maliciously; she's probably not even thinking of it, and it's likely not out of a sense of enjoyment. She's probably not giving it as much thought as you are. It's just time to move on and she's trying to do that and is likely (if not intentionally) encouraging you to do the same. Emailing her is probably not the most productive thing you can do for yourself in terms of getting yourself to a place where you can feel good about her not being in your life.