1. I suppose it is possible that her not answering me doesn't mean she loves me, but I sincerely said it was okay if she didn't, so why couldn't she just say no?
2. Your second statement is far from always true; there are so many possibilities. What if she loves both of us? What if she really loves me more but is downright TERRIFIED of breaking up with her first real boyfriend? For example, some girls who are kidnapped and sexually abused actually form very strong attachments to those who abuse them through fear.
3. Of course I'm comparing every person I date to her; I can't stop thinking about her. Did you even read my first post?