I don't see any problem
I was dating a guy like that.. he couldn't keep it up for the first couple of times cause he was so stressed..
My little bro doesn't do one night stands cause he doesn't get any please and looses his boner due to it.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to have an emotional connection. If you are a male it doesn't mean you should be rapy and wanting to bone everything that moves.
I personally prefer guys like that So cheer up and wait for the right lady to come by!