Hi lindammarie....I'm sorry people did not express compassion for you at a time when I'm sure it would have meant a lot. I will never understand why people either do not have it in their hearts, or else just find it so hard to express basic kindness ~reach out to those around them "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference"....my all-time favorite. In other words....just my opinion...I think you're right to just be compassionate towards others and know that you are doing your part Hugs ~whimsy ps....I do hope that those around you wake up soon and change their ways.