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Originally Posted by ak482
Hamster: Very eloquently written. That's what I would feel about my first time, and I hope she would feel just as flattered that I would consider her worthy of my first time. An interesting question: when setting up the profile, should I use language like "it's been awhile" (it really has) or "not very experienced" (again true)? When I'm asked for my turn-ons, I list what I think that I would most like, hopefully it doesn't give me away as a virgin.
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Thank you. Are you asking me about the specifics of setting up the profile? I only have an OKC profile, which was set up based on the advice I got on the bipolar forum when a woman got a list of "research-proven" keywords from a radio station, plus a bit of creativity. But the keywords for "research-proven" for 1) women, 2) regular dating sites, not specialized casual sex sites. OKC does not ask for turn-ons. Technically speaking, "not very experienced" is more correct, if I can put it this way.
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Originally Posted by ak482
I hope she would feel just as flattered that I would consider her worthy of my first time
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Yup! Precisely the right attitude!