Thank you for your advice, and for being the only person to reply to my thread. My boyfriend is not currently in therapy but I'm hoping to convince him to go with me once either of us has a job. (I'm 18, he's 21, we both live at home and are unemployed) I was thinking about it earlier and couldn't help but wonder why his family sought therapy for his brother, who had apparently been molested by other people numerous times, but not my boyfriend. His guilt is making him miserable and he claims it feels worse every day. Besides his close family, I'm the only person who knows about it. How am I supposed to help him when I'm not even comfortable with it myself?