What I find to be a problem is this, I get attacked stating that I am judging or not "enjoying" myself. Both are incorrect and assumptions. I clearly stated that both of us talked, laughed and had fun. So did I express it? Yes as I did most of the joking when we we talking and laughing. As far as the appearance of the other person, I couldn't care less or why would I "waste" my time? Come on people let's be reasonable here. Let's also stop putting a male into a stereotype as well.