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Originally Posted by Roadie
How long has you worked together? Is this the first time anything like this has happened?
Unless your history gives you reason to doubt your gut, I'd say trust it. Since it's at such odds with your reading of T, you probably are going to have to hash this out in session. I'm guessing you've been with this T a fairly short time ... right? If not, then the misread would seem more serious.
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I have been with him since September. I am okay if he was angry/irritated, or if he wasn't, I know Ts are human and so that doesn't bother me, it is over.
But, what does bother me is that I don't know when I can or can't trust my perceptions. I was just wondering if anyone else had this issue? Thanks for your reply!
Also, the day this happened, I was in a not so great ego state, and when I went in the next day, the whole room looked completely different (bigger, lighter), I was in a different ego state (mood/feeling state or whatever it is).
If my perceptions about the room were different, it would follow that all of my perceptions were skewed, but I usually can depend on my nonverbal perceptions, but I don't know. Sorry if this makes no sense.