watching you grow since your mum was pregnant accepting you would arrive to parents who put there needs first. 6 weeks spent in our home, lives in our hearts forever. 6 long months of assessments. your mum saying she doesn't want your dad not to be apart of 'her' family and trying it alone, but she didn't put her needs on hold while she was in assessment placements. she was reported as being to needy, which would affect little mans up bringing, now everybody looses out, he is more than likely going to be put up for adoption. we wont know until the judge decides. i know you dad has issues i know your mother also has issues, this is the main reason for my referral to social services. did i do the right thing or should i of been selfish and kept quiet?, no i think i did the right thing, your social worker tells me
your parents would have been refereed even if i didn't say anything to them, no i did the right thing first the relationship was volatile your dad has had issues all his life, she had him arrested on assault and sexual assault saying he was touching her in there bed at night while she was asleep. two years on the sex offenders register because he refused legal advice and just admitted everything to get it over with. now who is suffering? a child who they brought into this world, im crying now at the thought of not being able to hold my first grandchild again after the judge decides he will go to live with strangers, daughter tried for guardianship but some negative points made the social services think they were not appropriate to bring him up, our health issues and son living with us affects us, the mother is trying to get another assessment but solicitor says he doesnt think the judge will go for this as she has had 6 months to prove her self so while i feel sorry for my self and my family i know that little man will be brought up by good people and we will be here when he seeks us out