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Old Jul 04, 2013, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Light4me View Post
kind compassionate and would instinctively know when something was wrong and just call out of the blue. It was a great friendship.
In April 2012 BF confessed he was in love with me, always had been, never felt good enough, never felt this way about another person. I went there and truly explored my real feelings and before I knew it I was head over heals. We swam in the sea of love it was amazing even though we were 800 kms apart our conversations were deep and affectionate. When we finally met he kissed me like have never been kissed before and I knew then I was ready to walk through the fire to live my life with this wonderful man. Then suddenly in fact over night he changed...the message said he was sorting out his relationships sorting the meaningful from the meaningless and I didn't make the cut.
This kind of thing would almost kill anybody. And how weird - from your description, the experience was clearly meaningful to both. That he would doubt that is very odd. That he might not want to leave his stable current arrangement is understandable, but that he would doubt that the feelings were meaningful is very odd. I am sorry!
Thanks for this!
Light4me